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Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy: What Remains Unconscious and Hidden
The use of psychedelics for the purpose of therapy and personal growth has seen a significant increase in recent years. While the body of research supporting their therapeutic potential is expanding, much of the discussion regarding effectiveness and adverse effects remains reliant on the subjective, personal experiences of users. While some data suggests favourable outcomes in treating mental health issues such as depression, PTSD, and substance use, questions remain regardi
Dec 2, 202513 min read


Parentification: The Hidden Struggle Behind Resistance to Change
Parentification represents one of the greatest challenges in psychotherapy from the perspective of resistance to change . The internal desolation and identity diffusion it creates, coupled with a pervasive unconscious attachment to past traumatic experiences of being unseen, unimportant, non-existent, and required to attend to others, forms some of the most persistent resistances to the psychotherapeutic process. These dynamics underpin deeply entrenched self-sabotaging ten
Nov 16, 202515 min read


Men Without Women: Masculinity and Emotional Disconnection
Modern masculinity, emotional disconnection, and the hidden cost of societal expectations.
Jun 7, 202510 min read


Narcissistic Fantasy and Midlife
Midlife can be a difficult period for those presenting with narcissism. The collapse of dreams may evoke a sense of loss and loneliness.
Apr 6, 202510 min read


Midlife Crisis: The Fall of the Dream
The passage of time often shows its effects at the start of midlife, culminating in the collapse of unconscious fantasies.
Feb 16, 202511 min read


Parentification: The Trauma of High Performers, Perfectionists, and Workaholics
Perfectionism, workaholism, and high performance are traits often caused by the childhood trauma of parentification.
Dec 7, 20249 min read


Reluctance to Engage in Psychotherapy and Resistance to Change
Many will end up hesitating or never engaging in psychotherapy because of their unconscious fear of change.
Oct 16, 20247 min read


Attachment to Trauma and Toxic Relationships
Attachment to trauma is an emotional attachment to childhood trauma that may be continuously re-enacted in adult relationships.
Sep 20, 20248 min read


What Is Love? Unconscious Fantasies and the Couple’s Capacity for Intimate and Mature Love
The capacity for mature adult love is not an absence of an unconscious fantasy but the ability to hold and contain them in the relationship.
Aug 23, 202412 min read


How Unconscious Fantasies Influence Romantic Relationships
Unconscious fantasies guide, colour, and shape our romantic relationships. But because they are unconscious, we usually remain oblivious...
Jun 11, 20248 min read
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