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Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy: What Remains Unconscious and Hidden
The use of psychedelics for the purpose of therapy and personal growth has seen a significant increase in recent years. While the body of research supporting their therapeutic potential is expanding, much of the discussion regarding effectiveness and adverse effects remains reliant on the subjective, personal experiences of users. While some data suggests favourable outcomes in treating mental health issues such as depression, PTSD, and substance use, questions remain regardi
Dec 2, 202513 min read


Parentification: The Hidden Struggle Behind Resistance to Change
Parentification represents one of the greatest challenges in psychotherapy from the perspective of resistance to change . The internal desolation and identity diffusion it creates, coupled with a pervasive unconscious attachment to past traumatic experiences of being unseen, unimportant, non-existent, and required to attend to others, forms some of the most persistent resistances to the psychotherapeutic process. These dynamics underpin deeply entrenched self-sabotaging ten
Nov 16, 202515 min read


The Dark Side of AI Therapy: When Help Becomes Harm
AI chatbots once seemed like a promising tool for mental health support but growing evidence, at least for now, suggests otherwise. These systems can subtly reinforce distorted beliefs, validate harmful narratives, and even create false memories. For those already feeling vulnerable, what feels like helpful advice may actually deepen confusion and distress.
Jul 17, 202511 min read


Men Without Women: Masculinity and Emotional Disconnection
Modern masculinity, emotional disconnection, and the hidden cost of societal expectations.
Jun 7, 202510 min read


Narcissistic Fantasy and Midlife
Midlife can be a difficult period for those presenting with narcissism. The collapse of dreams may evoke a sense of loss and loneliness.
Apr 6, 202510 min read


Midlife Crisis: The Fall of the Dream
The passage of time often shows its effects at the start of midlife, culminating in the collapse of unconscious fantasies.
Feb 16, 202511 min read


A Life Without Relationships: Excessive Independence, Trauma, and Parentification
Chloe was a single, independent, and successful businesswoman who had travelled the world as part of her expat career. She was a...
Dec 20, 20247 min read


Parentification: The Trauma of High Performers, Perfectionists, and Workaholics
Perfectionism, workaholism, and high performance are traits often caused by the childhood trauma of parentification.
Dec 7, 20249 min read


The Sense of Unworthiness and How It Impacts Relationships
The experience of unworthiness affects not only how one perceives themselves but also their relationships, past, present, and future.
Nov 27, 20248 min read


Reluctance to Engage in Psychotherapy and Resistance to Change
Many will end up hesitating or never engaging in psychotherapy because of their unconscious fear of change.
Oct 16, 20247 min read


Attachment to Trauma and Toxic Relationships
Attachment to trauma is an emotional attachment to childhood trauma that may be continuously re-enacted in adult relationships.
Sep 20, 20248 min read


What Is Love? Unconscious Fantasies and the Couple’s Capacity for Intimate and Mature Love
The capacity for mature adult love is not an absence of an unconscious fantasy but the ability to hold and contain them in the relationship.
Aug 23, 202412 min read


The Narcissist’s Distorted Perception of How Others See Them
Listening to a narcissistic individual talk about their sexual encounters with a never-ending line of romantic partners reveals the...
Jul 20, 20246 min read


Narcissism, Relationships, Love, Infidelity
The impaired capacity for empathy and intimacy in close relationships is the main cause for the narcissist's difficulties with...
Jun 18, 20248 min read


How Unconscious Fantasies Influence Romantic Relationships
Unconscious fantasies guide, colour, and shape our romantic relationships. But because they are unconscious, we usually remain oblivious...
Jun 11, 20248 min read


Narcissism: Subtypes and the Relationship With Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
Narcissism is a term which is often colloquially misunderstood, misused, and carries a negative value connotation to describe someone who...
Jun 4, 202413 min read


The Loneliness and Pain of the Parentified Child
Parentification is a phenomenon that occurs when there is a reversal of roles between the parent and the child. This can be in the form...
May 30, 202411 min read


Interpretive Dynamic Transactional Analysis Psychotherapy (IDTAP)
Interpretive dynamic transactional analysis psychotherapy (IDTAP) (Zivkovic, 2020, 2022) is one of distinctly psychodynamic approaches to...
May 25, 20247 min read


Effects of Childhood Trauma on Adult Romantic Relationships
Difficulties with close relationships, especially romantic relationships, are some of the most common presenting issues in psychotherapy....
May 21, 202411 min read


Eating Disorders: Psychological Characteristics and Psychotherapy
Eating disorders are mental conditions characterised by issues related to eating or weight control. They can present themselves as mental...
May 17, 20247 min read
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