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Dec 20, 20247 min read
A Life Without Relationships: The Dependency Paradox, Trauma, and Parentification
Chloe was a single, independent, and successful businesswoman who had travelled the world as part of her expat career. She was a...
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Dec 7, 20249 min read
Parentification: The Trauma of High Performers, Perfectionists, and Workaholics
Perfectionism, workaholism, and high performance are traits often caused by the childhood trauma of parentification.
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Nov 27, 20248 min read
The Sense of Unworthiness and How It Impacts Relationships
The experience of unworthiness affects not only how one perceives themselves but also their relationships, past, present, and future.
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Oct 16, 20247 min read
Reluctance to Engage in Psychotherapy and Resistance to Change
Many will end up hesitating or never engaging in psychotherapy because of their unconscious fear of change.
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Sep 20, 20248 min read
Attachment to Trauma and Toxic Relationships
Attachment to trauma is an emotional attachment to childhood trauma that may be continuously re-enacted in adult relationships.
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Aug 23, 202412 min read
What Is Love? Unconscious Fantasies and the Couple’s Capacity for Intimate and Mature Love
The capacity for mature adult love is not an absence of an unconscious fantasy but the ability to hold and contain them in the relationship.
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Jul 20, 20246 min read
The Narcissist’s Distorted Perception of How Others See Them
Listening to a narcissistic individual talk about their sexual encounters with a never-ending line of romantic partners reveals the...
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Jun 18, 20248 min read
Narcissism, Relationships, Love, Infidelity
The impaired capacity for empathy and intimacy in close relationships is the main cause for the narcissist's difficulties with...
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Jun 11, 20248 min read
How Unconscious Fantasies Influence Romantic Relationships
Unconscious fantasies guide, colour, and shape our romantic relationships. But because they are unconscious, we usually remain oblivious...
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Jun 4, 202413 min read
Narcissism: Subtypes and the Relationship With Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
Narcissism is a term which is often colloquially misunderstood, misused, and carries a negative value connotation to describe someone who...
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May 30, 202411 min read
The Loneliness and Pain of the Parentified Child
Parentification is a phenomenon that occurs when there is a reversal of roles between the parent and the child. This can be in the form...
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May 25, 20247 min read
Interpretive Dynamic Transactional Analysis Psychotherapy (IDTAP)
Interpretive dynamic transactional analysis psychotherapy (IDTAP) (Zivkovic, 2020, 2022) is one of distinctly psychodynamic approaches to...
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May 21, 202411 min read
Effects of Childhood Trauma on Adult Romantic Relationships
Difficulties with close relationships, especially romantic relationships, are some of the most common presenting issues in psychotherapy....
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May 17, 20247 min read
Eating Disorders: Psychological Characteristics and Psychotherapy
Eating disorders are mental conditions characterised by issues related to eating or weight control. They can present themselves as mental...
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May 14, 202412 min read
Parenting Styles and Their Impact on the Child’s Mental Health and Education
Western society places a strong emphasis on a child's education and their development as an independent individual. This societal...
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May 9, 202415 min read
Parentification and the Childhood Trauma of the Parentified Child
Individuals who may seem excessively independent, resilient, self-reliant, dependable, workaholic, or committed to taking care of others,...
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May 5, 20247 min read
Dependency
Dependency, often confused with dependent personality disorder (DPD), is a broader term. It's defined by a person's reliance on...
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Apr 28, 20249 min read
Parenting Styles and the Child's Psychological Wellbeing
Parenting styles refer to the attitudes and behaviours that parents display towards their children. They significantly influence the the...
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Apr 20, 20245 min read
Couple Therapy
Couple therapy is a form of psychotherapy that focuses on exploring and repairing relationship issues. It is different from couple...
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Apr 17, 20247 min read
Impostor Syndrome: What Is It and the Role of Psychotherapy in Treating It
Impostor syndrome is a psychological condition characterised by an internal experience of believing that one is not as competent as...
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